As a cat care provider I must responsibly consider all the effects my services will have on the entire cat: Mind, Body & Spirit.
I have the pleasure of grooming cats and helping them look and feel their best. By removing dead coat and matted fur the cat will appear more beautiful. By treating dander, scales and oily skin with cat-safe shampoo the cat will feel clean and fresh. Trimming the claws prevents injury to the cat’s paws. There are countless other physical benefits.
More relevant than outside appearance is the impact on the cat’s psychological health. A controlled environment with minimal outside noise is ideal. The less threatened the cat feels the better it can focus its attention on the immediate interaction. Cats become overwhelmed quickly and almost always respond with aggressive displays (hissing, swatting, posturing, etc.). When I consider what the cat’s perception could be in any given circumstance I’m able to adjust my style so it compliments that particular cat’s personality. Some may want lots of affection and sweet-talk or may need to cuddle extra close while others may prefer the just-get-it-over-with-and-don’t-talk-about-it method. Whatever creates the greatest sense of understanding and respect between the cat and me will foster a positive mental connection.
Most important is the delicate essence, or Spirit, of each unique cat. Similarities among breeds abound as do commonalities related to age and health. As with us, cats are magnificent beings who want to feel safe and be loved. It’s reasonable to understand that their behavior while out of the familiar surroundings of home is not going to reflect the true scope of their personalities. Fortunately when cats are treated with kindness and respect they often behave in kind and can be incredibly tolerant. It takes patience and time to develop, but it’s exhilarating when a cat shares unsolicited affection, lets its guard down and allows itself to just be in my presence.
I feel honored to have experienced such intimate relationships with so many fascinating cats over the years. I encourage you to see the world through your cat’s eyes. Even though we have to do things they don’t like for their own good, we can do it more safely for everyone when we consider what the cat is sensing and handle it accordingly. I take into account the following: How will the cat interpret my actions? What will it think my intentions are? What do I need to accomplish with this cat? What type of cat am I handling? Together the answers to these questions guide my methods. Compassion for all cats is always my greatest motivation.